Lastly, WhatsApp collects a lot of data on the way you use it. If you don’t disable backups, hackers could find your nudes if they get access to your Google or Apple accounts. Also, it backs up your chats and pics to Google Drive or iCloud by default. It’s also used by tons of people, so partners may already have it.Ĭons: WhatsApp only encrypts messages when everyone in chat has the newest version. Pros: When WhatsApp does encrypt messages, they are very secure. It’s also less popular than big apps like WhatsApp. It also suffers a security flaw: With a little work, anyone can find out who and when you’re texting. Telegram’s security is weaker than Signal and Snapchat’s. It can also disable screenshots.Ĭons: You have to choose to encrypt your messages and disable screenshots every time you start a new chat. Pros: Like Signal, Telegram can encrypt your messages.
You may have to do a little convincing to get partners to download it. It also lets you disable screenshots.Ĭons: It’s much less popular than Kik, Snapchat, or WhatApp. Signal encrypts your messages so hackers can’t read them.
Are your photos safe from hackers, data collectors, and prying eyes? If not, here are 3 secure messaging apps you can use to send nudes: Some in the BDSM community worry about the privacy and security of their sexual pics. Since the Facebook scandal, social media privacy has become a hot issue. There is no ‘right’ way to be kinky! And you will never stop learning more in the BDSM community, there is so much to take in and learn. What advice would you give to someone who is new to BDSM?īe patient, don’t be afraid to seek out advice and mentor-ship from those willing to give it. Or rushing into everything, trying to understand and know everything there is to know immediately, just to name a few!ġ0. Or thinking that just because someone is a sub, that they have to please any Dom who wants them to. What common mistakes have you seen BDSM beginners make?Īcting as one dynamics rules apply to all. It is trust, and respect and openness and understanding and does not need to include sex for it to be BDSM.ĩ. And personally BDSM doesn’t always equal sex. That it’s completely consensual and there is nothing inherently wrong with someone for being into or enjoying such activities. What do you wish the public knew about BDSM? One time I was having a conversation with my older sister and accidentally mentioned my fetlife account, but she didn’t seem phased by it at all and just kept the conversation going.Ĩ. Have you ever ‘come out’ about being kinky to friends or family?
One time at a grocery store a woman called out to me from a few few away, walked up, gently touched my collar and said “that’s cool” with this smirk, and then walked away.ħ. Has anyone ever guessed that you were kinky before they knew you? Nope! Partially because a lot of dungeons and events like it are 21 up, but also because I don’t know anyone in the community in my area and have yet to work up the courage to go to a munch or such alone.Ħ. Have you ever been to a BDSM event (like a munch or a dungeon)?
And without the kink community I wouldn’t have met several of my current close friends who have helped me in their own ways!ĥ. I feel like it’s given me more confidence, both sexually and just in my general life. But it did help me discover that I was very much into a less vanilla life! Probably not the most appropriate book for a preteen to be reading. I discovered BDSM through reading, specifically a book called ‘My Nerdy Valentine’. How long have you known that you were kinky?
I am a full fledged submissive! Tried my hand at domming once and it was the least comfortable I’ve ever felt, sub life forever!Ģ. If you chose to answer these questions yourself on either a blog or video I’d love to check it out! So, I thought I’d start with a post that allowed you to get to know me a bit more! These questions were chosen as the top 10 from a long list (approximately 80!) created by Phoen and me.